I'm sorry that you find yourself in this situation, but it sounds like you are doing everything possible to act in a very honorable fashion. In order to avoid problems down the road, please retain a qualified attorney in Colorado to represent you. He or she will walk you through the process of terminating the woman's parental rights and allowing you and your husband to be the child's legal parents. Good luck to you.
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The better solution would be adoption.
If she is willing-she can sign papers so that
you can join your husband as the parent of the child.
An adoption/family law attorney can guide you through the process.
If you prefer guardianship-a family/guardianship attorney can guide you
The answer given does not imply that an attorney-client relationship has been established and your best course of action is to have legal representation in this matter.
Your husband, as the biological father, already has the right to take the child to the doctor and whatnot. Legal action is only needed to cement your rights.
The most straight forward solution would be adoption. The biological mother could relinquish her parental rights and you could adopt your husband's baby.
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