I would file this under the category of "Good job" but you need to follow things through better or operate at your own peril. There is not enough information provided to determine what, if anything other than your agreement between you, is legally governing your time-sharing. As such, it is important to make sure to pull the entire file and see what the disposition of everything is. The fact that you've been operating under an agreed schedule might help support your position if there is not an order ratifying it entered, however, the judge would look at other factors, too. You really need to consult with a qualified family law attorney and have the entire thing vetted, in my opinion. Good luck to you.
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Until such time as an order is issued from the court adopting the changes in the parenting plan that your and your ex-husband submitted there is no enforceable agreement. What should have been submitted to to the court and not just filed with the clerk would have been an Agreed Order Modifying Parenting Plan ...etc. Don't look for a form, there isn't one. From a logistical standpoint if one of you were now seeking to enforce the agreement made and the other refused to do so the proper action would be to file a Supplemental Petition for Modification citing to the actual change in time sharing that has been in place as well as the previously filed agreement as proof of a change in circumstances supporting the changes requested in the Supplemental Petition for Modification.
Initially, this would have been a very simple matter that would have taken an experienced family law attorney a few hours to complete. Obtaining the same result now will, in all likelihood, take much more time and effort.
Daniel Bachert, Esq.
The Bachert Law Firm, P.A.
330 Clematis Street, Suite 222
West Palm Beach, Florida 33401
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Until there is a court order that confirms your agreement, you are not in a position to have the court enforce your agreement. And there is a court order that confirms a prior agreement, which means that in the event of a dispute, there would be substantial difficulties.
Your question is not clear as to whether you are in favor of the new parenting plan or whether you have changed your mind. In either case, whoever is proposing the new parenting plan should submit the plan to the court with a confirming order. If you no longer are in agreement with the new plan, then could go back to the court order, which would result in the other party seeking a hearing to establish or enforce the new agreement. This would give each of you the opportunity to argue your respective position to the court.
Due to the unorthodox nature of the procedure in your case, you should consult with an experienced family law attorney. There are many good ones in your area who offer a free or low cost initial consultation.
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