I'm sorry your life has taken such a turn for the worse, but you can rest assured, that based upon your statements, it is very unlikely that any Judge would force you to pay her maintenance or the reverse. Basically, the real issue is what will happen to the house, will it be sold or will one of the parties buy the other out of their share of the value in the house.
Unfortunately, that type of case can get messy which means it can get expensive, so you are better off seeking immediate counsel to see about all the particulars of your case before making any decisions about what to do in the future.
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The court will not leave you desitute. Without hearing more of the facts, you and your wife will continue to receive social security without a contribution from the other. In determining an award of maintenance the court will consider the "standard of living" of the parties during the marriage.
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