My husband and I got into a heated argument and I removed myself from the room to attempt to stop myself from continuing the escalation. My husband wanted to try to resolve the issue but it escalated. We had a pushing war and I ended up scratching him on his arms and my own mentality got out of hand and I called the police and not even out of fear. I just wanted the chaos to stop. They found him being the aggressor since he continued with the argument. What are the best statements I can give the judge to have the order lifted?