You definitely need the help of an attorney. I would contact the local bar association or law library to see if there are any legal aid clinics or lawyers who assist with cases such as yours.
Unfortunately, this is a question and answer forum and no one can contact you from this cite. There is a find an attorney tab that will assist you finding an attorney. Or since you financial situation is strained maybe you should seek legal aid. I think there is a lone star legal aid office in San Antonio that provides free legal services to someone like yourself.
You have many legal issues that need to be addressed. Start with the TRO hearing and maybe call the police about the cat not being fed.
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