No, you are not required to legally change your name to receive your benefits. When the time come, just give Social Security the direct deposit info for your bank account. Many, many people (including myself) use a name slightly different from the "official" name on the Social Security account. It doesn't even seem to make a difference if the Social Security, drivers license, and passport names do not match. Mine don't.
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