You 'probably' qualify for the 3 year rule
You should list ALL crimes/citations/violations ... it is better not to leave anything out.
You should consider lucky to have been given asylum and a greencard ... spend some money and have an attorney help with this super-important final step.
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You appear to qualify to apply three months before your LPR three year anniversary provided you are still married to a USC.
Also, list your entire and complete citation history with dispositions as required.
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No, you have not been married to a USC for 3 years. You are confusing separate issues. You could apply in 2014. Check 319 of the INA. Better yet, sit down with an immigration attorney with all the facts and hash it out.
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