He wants to relocate with his new fiancee her child and our child 1000 miles away. since custody to him (2) years he has controlled the entire situation and done everything to alienate me from our childs surrounding. When custody was given the judge said it would be temporary. I am the primary attachment figure and was the primary caretaker for 5 yrs of the childs life. He falsified his trial testimony and did just the contrary, it has been a struggle even getting long weekends and holidays with him. His fiancess x husband lives in the place he wants to relocate thereby taking my child further away. He has sole custody but I am a very involved parent and there for every event concert every school activity. He has no support system in the new state. I have a full family hereI have just found out that the parent asking for relocation and his fiancee have been speaking to the child about the move saying it is decided and asking the child how they feel. The child has showed unhappiness in this move. The relocating parent has not factored in baures case and has stated that employment is better in the new state which is 1000 miles away..there is no extended family, just the fiancee her child and the fiancee's x husband. The proposed parenting plan for me is 2 day visits in a month, the relocating parent will drive child to NJ to be with me sat from 9-6 no overnight and then sunday 9-3 and drive back...and 3 skype calls that will be monitored in a week. This is in bad faith I beleive, my full family is here and the child has lived with me for 5 yrs, 2 yrs ago custody was transferred. CAn someone help. Thanks
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