If there are no children involved, then yes. If there are children involved, I suggest you contact a local divorce attorney and file as soon as possible so as to stop her from moving the child(ren) from you. Best of Luck.
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More information is needed to answer this question. As mentioned earlier, you can stop her from leaving with minor children. If there are no children then I am not sure of your concern? As you are separated, have you already split your personal items and financial accounts? Is there marital property that must be divided? It is always best to file while she is in the state and have the status quo order go into effect before she leaves with marital funds if this is there are any. In any event, she does not have to be in the state to divorce her. There are multiple issues to your question so you should speak to an attorney.
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