You need to seek immediate advice from a qualified divorce attorney. The trust that you mention is only one consideration and your attorney can tell you what effect it will have, if any. Many times, assets such as this are considered the separate property of the inheriting spouse. But they can still have an impact in terms of calculating spousal support and sometimes child support. Many times, and perhaps most times, the parties agree on a property settlement, instead of the court. In that case, it can still be part of your negotiations.
You need to find an attorney to assist you as soon as possible. Divorce is no place for you to go into battle on your own.
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I agree with my colleague. No one should go into an acrimonious divorce proceeding without an attorney. That is especially true with issues like this trust that you have mentioned.
I agree you need to be represented in the divorce proceedings.
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