Pursuant to 8 C.F.R . section 209.2, the spouse of an asylee can apply for adjustment as a permanent resident. Get a good consultation to insure you are eligible to file for adjustment. It should be done at the same time as your wife. Do not try to do on your own but consult with counsel immediately. A full review of all the facts will be required. Seek help now.
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