How is this possible that it has been in effect for a year and a half if so wrong? You need to get a local attorney ASAP immediately to seek to vacate the order - is it even still in effect because usually they last a year, although she could have sought an extension. If money is an issue, contact the Charleston office of Legal Aid of WV. Help yourself here and get an attorney!!
To questioners from West Virginia & New York: Although I am licensed to practice in your state, I practice on a day-to-day basis in Massachusetts. I answer questions in your state in areas of the law in which I practice, and in which I feel comfortable trying to offer you assistance based on my knowledge of specific statutes in your state and/or general principles applicable in all states. It is always best, however, to work with attorneys and court personnel in your own area to deal with specific problems and factual situations.