There are standard forms that can be obtained on the internet and from most title company websites. Affidavit of Death of Spouse, Affidavit of Death of Joint Tenant are the two that would best work to remove your deceased wife. If you want to add your new wife there is a form called Interspousal Transfer Deed that would work best. Adding your new wife to title means that you are giving her an interest in your separate property. This is a loving thing to do, but not necessarily the best financial decision, depending upon your age, her age, children from the prior marriage and other factors. You might want to consult an attorney or financial advisor about this issue. If you have adult children from your deceased wife, speak to them.
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