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My uncle passed away on December 1st 2012. His wife is acting really funny now. I want to know who is in charge of the estate.

Jamaica, NY |

I need to know if the wife is in charge of the estate or if there is a will that we don't know about.

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IS there an estate? If everything was jointly owned by your aunt and uncle, or if she was named as beneficiary of his assets, then everything would pass outside of probate and whether or not your uncle had a Will would be irrelevant. You need to try to determine how the assets are titled before deciding what you should do about this, if anything.

James Frederick

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It depends if they had children, and if there was a will. If your aunt is not mentally competent, a close family member may qualify to administer the estate and take care of her needs. Right now, you haven't provided enough detail to answer.

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Under SCPA 1402(1) , you dont have standing to probate the will unless you are a creditor. Do you have a reason to believe that you are beneficiary of the estate?


Roman Aminov, Esq.

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It depends on many things, but briefly, the spouse is the first to receive or keep the assets. If you have reason to believe there is a will or trust that made you a beneficiary you may have the ability to challenge the administration and distribution of the estate. Keep in mind that people handle the death of a close relative or spouse in different ways and these matters can be very difficult on families. If you are concerned you should speak to an attorney who can review specific issues with you and give you your options.

All comments and/or opinions are for general information, and do not create an attorney-client relationship. In order to obtain a comprehensive and accurate legal opinion you should consult an attorney with the specific and detailed facts or your case/question.

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