One of the required documents in all divoerce cases is a "NOTICE REGARDING CREDITORS." One of the purposes of this document is to make you each aware that the Court can Order that each of you pay certain debts, but the court does NOT have jurisdiction over your creditors as they are not parties to the divorce action. The Notice reads, in part:
"YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR COMMUNITY DEBTS. The court usually requires/orders one spouse or the other to pay certain community debts in, or through, the Decree of Dissolution or Legal Separation. A court order that does this is binding on the spouses only, not the creditors. You and your spouse are legally responsible for these community debts whether you are married, divorced, or legally separated. These debts are matters of contract between both of you and your creditors.."
While having filed a claim of "innocent spouse" is one of your options in dealing with the IRS, the IRS may well take the position that you did receive the benefit of the funds due to the community property statutes or they may take the position that you signed a joint return.
You do have the option of taking your ex back to court for your damages and losses, since they were a result of his not obeying the court Order that he pay this debt. You should consult an attorney to help determine if it is worth pursuing.
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Filing the innocent spouse request was the proper decision to have the IRS return your funds and to remove the tax debt from you as a continuing liability. As part of the submission to request innocent spouse status most people file one form but the secret to success is filing several. The Forms are on the IRS web site or in my book TAXJAMS: Simple Solutions, see the chapter on Innocent Spouse Releif. Go with what you sent in for now, but if the request is denied you can appeal and supplement the filing by refiling all the relevant forms with more detailed information such as an affidavit or other info. Call with any questions, and best regards, Greg
Call the auditor and ask when the appeal period expires now. I cannot be responsible for your case as I am not in an attorney-client relationship with you. In PA we require a written retainer agreement.