Dana very gently set out that there are a lot of very complicated issues. To preserve your own interests seek out a local probate attorney ASAP - bring all correspondence and documentation you can round out, and put together a detailed timeline with all relevant information if you have time. Don't put this off another day, get the ball rolling with an attorney ASAP
Best of luck
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About the only useful advice anyone here can give you, based on the very complicated facts you've described, is that you need to consult with a competent local probate or estate attorney immediately. There are simply too many complicated facts, and too much at risk, to try and do this yourself based on answers you get from people for free online.
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I agree. And please be prepared with full documentation. It will help.
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