My sister is 16 years old about to be 17, I am about to be 20. My nephew has been living with me and my partner for almost a year. The father of the baby is in and out of juvenile hall since he was 13. His dad comes in and out of the babies life and does not help in any way. I love my nephew like a son, I have been there for the baby since she was pregnant. I have help financially for a year now.