Yes, 'bad behaviour' by family members (you and your mother) can be used against a visa applicant.
You didn't tell us her immigration status in the UK ... a VERY IMPORTANT fact. Plus, it would help if we knew whether or not she has a husband, kids and a job in the UK ... 'cementing' her ties to the UK and lessening the chances that she will follow you and your mother's 'lead' in breaking your visas.
Lastly, London is known for being a very tough Consular Post ... it would help if she paid an attorney (there are many in London that have a US license) for assistance.
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There's no possible way to know. There are many, many factors that could be at play here and a sentence or two explanation is almost certainly not enough to figure this out. If you want personalized advice, you should contact a lawyer who can review the file and talk with the parties to see what is going on.
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I am sorry to hear that. I think what you stated in your P.S. was one of the main reasons for her visa denials, i.e., immigrant intent.
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She needs to show an unabandoned foreign residence to which she intends to return. Since she is living outside of her country, has no family ties to where she lives, perhaps has minimal property ties, she has every incentive to do what you did. The officer did not feel at all confident she intended to return to any particular place when the graduation was over.
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