Sorry for your problems. I am not sure how he "hands you those rights" unless you are talking about the card. I am not sure how giving you a card would change anything...
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You are a victim whether or not anyone handed you a "card" or not. I personally do not believe such things exist. Your rights as a victim are not the same as those of a defendant.
I think the prosecutor behaved rudely and you should write to his boss THE DA Mr. R. ScottOwens at (916) 543-8000.
You may also want to discuss obtaining a restraining order and the viabiity of a civil suit.
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You were indeed a victim whether or not you received a Victim's Rights Card. Often times, these are forgotten in the hustle of putting together the case or making the arrest but while they list your rights, the card itself does not grant rights you do not already possess.
I am sorry for your treatment. It is not uncommon for witnesses and victims to feel re-victimized by the system. Our justice system is not perfect, and no penalty will make you whole but you will be best served by documenting your frustrations in a letter to the DA or to a Victim's Rights Group.