What happens next is it going to take me longer to get her he didn't take the paperwork so what do I do
Your question does not give enough information to answer. What paperwork was served? Is this a parentage case? Was he served with the Petition to Establish Parental Relationship (FL-200) or some other papers?
Without knowing what the "paperwork" was no one can accurately explain procedures or what you should do.
Were YOU serving the paperwork? You cannot legally serve the father. You need to have someone who is not a party to the case serve him. Just get a new copy of the paperwork and have anyone who is not you and who is over 18 serve him. You can hire a process server for a low fee to get this done. If it is TRO paperwork the sheriff can serve him.
If someone else served him and he ripped up the papers, it doesn't really matter because he is still considered validly served. He just has to see the papers. That's it. You can file the proof of service and go to court. Without us knowing what exactly you were serving him it's hard to give you more specific guidance.
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