Although you are talking about family matters, this is not a family law or family court question. Family law addresses matters of divorce, custody, and matters related to marriage and domestic partnership.
I suggest that you re-post your question to those practicing contract law and elder law.
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As in your other posting, you indicate no legal obligation to suport, other than a continuing gift.
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