Unless you agree otherwise you do not waive any grounds for divorce. Once an agreement is reached on all issues in a divorce, however, there is usually no reason to proceed on fault grounds, and most people are content to use no fault grounds (one year separation).
You do not have to mediate with him or any NSA representatives if you do not want to. Do not sign anything, anything that they propose as a resolution, you should have reviewed by an attorney. You need to know what you legal options are before entering into any agreement. Don't get bullied into something. If you would like to discuss this in more detail, my office is in Severna Park and we offer reduced rate initial consultations.
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