The unfortunate fact, from your perspective, is that either way he will get a divorce. But without knowing a lot more about your situation the only good advice that can be given is not to sign anything before you have a conversation with a local attorney - in detail - about the marriage. How long have you been married? Are there children? Properties? IRAs or 401ks? All of it is important.
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Don't do anything without consulting a matrimonial lawyer. You may be entitled to maintenance and support.
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If you sign those papers you may be giving away some very vital rights. Speak to a local matrimonial attorney immediately.
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You may have a claim for alimony (i.e., maintenance). You thus owe it to yourself to at least schedule a consultation with a NYC Divorce attorney for a full assessment.
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