If your husband is an LPR (Legal permanent resident) and you entered legally and don't have any bars you are not informing us about then there are possibly ways to get you an adjustment of status, it would be even easier if he were a citizen. Sounds like you guys already have an immigration lawyer you should call him or her.
According to the Yates Memo of March 9, 2005. When the derivative beneficiary’s relationship to the principal has come into existence after the filing of the grandfathering I-130 or Labor Cert, but before the principal beneficiary adjusts status. Such individuals are not independently grandfathered under 245(i). Nonetheless, USCIS will allow such after-acquired derivatives the benefit of filing an adjustment
of status application under 245(i) if and only if they are adjusting status along with or following
to join the principal beneficiary. That means you are fine and can follow to join your husband within a two year period counting of the date of his adjustment. It is very unfortunate that it was not done contemporaneously.
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According to Section 245(I) regulations an the Yates' memo, you may. You may also have your husband petition for you. Whichever option you choose, make sure that you have an experienced immigration attorney to assist you with this process.
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