I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. It sounds like you and he are both in a great amount of pain.
I hope that another attorney has some advice for you on how to get him help with his alcoholism. If that is not possible, however, and you no longer wish to be married to him, you have the option of divorcing him. If this is what you have decided you need to do, you should do it before he drinks away your retirement funds and places your real estate in jeopardy.
I sincerely hope you can get him some help, but remember that - truly - only he can accept the help when he is ready.
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A spouse, blood relative, guardian, police officer, doctor, or court officer can file a petition under Mass. General Laws chapter 123 Sec. 35 asking the district court to involuntarily commit someone whose alcohol or drug use puts themselves or others at risk. This can result in a commitment to an inpatient treatment program for up to 30 days. The court will review the paperwork and can issue a summons or bench warrant for the person to appear and be examined. If the person is brought before the court, he or she will examined by a forensic psychologist or psychiatrist who will determine whether the person's condition meets the criteria for commitment. You also could go online and research interventions. Good luck. These proceedings can be difficult.
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