On a technical level, any property or assets accrued during the marriage are marital property subject to division. That said, if you bought property with "your money" and he never resided with you, that absolutely is something which may be factored into settlement negotiation. In any event, I do advise you to call a NYC Divorce lawyer to schedule a follow-up consultation.
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That depends - but probably. Mr. Bliven's answer was quite accurate.
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If you and your husband are in agreement, you can divide your assets any way you want. If you are not in agreement, a court will decide. Assets are divided by "equitable distribution" in New York. Equitable distribution means a fair distribution. If you have always maintained separate finances and assets, you have a strong argument that the court should divide assets they way you are proposing. That does not, however, mean that the court will agree. A judge could decided that some other division is more equitable.
It sounds like you should consult an attorney and have that attorney reach out to your spouse suggesting that his attorney contact yours. You would then be able to enter into an agreement without the need to go to Court and simply file for an uncontested divorce.
It sounds as though you may be able to proceed uncontestes. That said, however, you need to be apprised of NY Law as it relates to property distribution during divorce. I strongly urge you to seek the advice of a local matrimonial attorney to discuss your options and specifics of your case. Please let me know if I can be of further assistance.
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