I have practiced Social Security Disability law for 35 years. In your situtation the money goes to your father's estate. Typically, when an attorney is involved, the SSA will withhold 25% to pay the attorney.
This response is meant to be information only and should not be considered to be legal advice. This information is not meant and should not be construed to be the formation of an attorney client relationship. I practice Virginia Workers compensation law and Social Security Disability law.
The SSA payment goes to your father's estate, not to you. It will be a one time payment since the person entitled to monthly payments based on disability is no longer living.
Whether you would be responsible for these legal fees depends on 1)what the written fee agreement between the lawyer and your father says and 2) what your father's will, if any, says.
At such time as the lawyer sends you a letter about the matter, you will need to consult with counsel about it. Until then, you can ignore what people are telling you.
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