What a terrible idea. What if a minor sees the tapes. What if she looks like a minor. How much money have you put aside for your legal defense. Have you taken a trip up to the prison to meet your cellmate? What if she sues you. What if she amputates you? No end to really bad ideas. Do not do it.
We do not have a client/attorney relationship until you make an appointment, we discuss your case face to face, I accept a retainer, and we explictly agree to enter into representation.
I completely agree with the comments of my colleague. And remember, once you post those tapes they are out there forever. Before you even consider doing something like this, you should make a list of all the reasons why doing this now could be embarrassing at the least and harmful to both you and your ex-girlfriend in the future. If you are mad at her, write a letter expressing all of your anger, then burn the letter without sending it along with the sex tapes of you and her. You'll be glad you did.