This is an incredibly messy and complicated story.
Why haven't you hired an immigration lawyer? ... you really need one.
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I agree with attorney Capriotti. You are very unlikely to extricate yourself from this mess without an attorney. There is an old saying "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". It probably works for "husband" too.
Andrew M. Bramante, Rosner Partners, 216-771-5588. Free telephone consultation. You should always consult with an experienced immigration attorney to make certain that the advice you received is appropriate for your particular immigration case.
You need at least two attorneys. One for the divorce and another for the immigration problems you are about to have.
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