You need to file to modify custody. If you both agree, it can be done quickly and simply.
I would encourage you to hire an attorney to draft the paperwork. You could try to do it yourself but I assume that time is of the essence since you don't want her to change her mind.
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You would need to file a modification, then do a judgment and a waiver. Most court requires an appearance by the moving party if changing custody, so you will have to go to court once to prove up the deal.
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