we have a court agreement visitation that I see my kids every two weeks for the whole weekend. and at times when her new boyfriend is home she will not let me see the kids at all or will only let me get one of them. and then told me she's moving out of town. without us going to court. the agreement doesn't have a place to pick up so I try and pick them up at her house because she will not meet me some where. and in the order it says I have to pick them up and drop them off and now I'm not sure what else to do..
You need a lawyer and yes you pay for that, and file contempt and possibly modification. It is possible a judge might award you legal fees from her.
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If you are concerned about her moving you may want to file for a modification of custody and visitation. Otherwise you need to file for contempt. Either way you will pay a filing fee.
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Check with the clerk in the county were the visitation order was issued. Many counties do not charge a filing fee for a contempt action. However, as my colleague has stated, if she has told you she is moving out of state, you may want to file a petition to modify custody and/or visitation. In that case, you will be required to pay a filing fee. In either case, you will may have difficulty getting the results you want if you go about this pro se (without an attorney). At the very least, find an attorney who will give you a free telephone consultation. Many will provide those at no charge.
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