You need to file an answer and proceed with the divorce, if you do not know what papers go to the court and seek assistance, if children or property are involved consider hiring an Attorney I have appeared in Family court in San Bernardino and Rancho Cucomonga
My name is Stephen R. Cohen and I have practiced over 38 years and can be reached at 213-819-1171. I practiced mainly in Los Angeles and Orange County, California. I am not seeking clients from existing relationships with other attorneys, and give only limited advise over the phone (the phone is primarily used to set appointments), these services do not create an attorney client relationship. I apologize for mispelling< as I am a lousy typist, My answers may offend as I do not believe in pulling punches or sugar coating the truth. Further regarding courts in other states my opinions are largely based on logic and what I think is the modern trend which is to consider the needs of the child.
If you don't already have a lawyer, hire one to help you. The law is complex and there may be things that can be done that you didn't know about. Good luck!
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Accord with the prior two responses. So long as your default has not been entered, you can file and serve your response and proceed to get a divorce. If your default has been entered, you have limited time to file a Motion to set aside your default. Based on your question, you would best retain an experienced Family Law Attorney to advise and represent you in your divorce.
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Mr. Cohen is correct you cannot move this case along through the system unless you actively participate by filing your response and then requesting to set the matter "At Issue" to bring it to a conclusion. I suggest that you seek counsel to assist you in that regard especially if you are out of county or out of state
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