My wife and I got divorced in December. We share legal joint and physical custody of our kids. I have kids during the week some, days and weekends. My 14 yr old, is rebellious and says she can choose where she wants to stay, with her mom or dad. She stays with her mom because she talks back to me and walks off when told to go to her room. I am lead to believe that there is no discipline at her house and I cannot get any time because my wife doesn't recommend her doing anything because her and my ex are more friends than anything it seems. My faughter leaves the my Home by walking out to her friends when told to go to her room. Does she have to stay at my place and obey my rules?
It sounds like you have a significant parenting time issue. You believe alienation is occurring and the other parent does not support the court ordered schedule. The other parent likely believes the 14 year old can make such decisions. Regardless of who is correct, you have a practical issue with a maturing child who refuses to obey.
You should seek to mediate the issue. A child should not be able to dictate parenting schedules though, as they mature, they bite with their feet and their desires are considered strongly. Perhaps therapy is in order.
I agree with counsel. This a potentially difficult situation; you may need to mediate and possibly a motion hearing.
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Your 14 year old is court ordered to come to your home. Since your divorce was just granted last month, you can do a 6 month review hearing with the judge and the judge can give the other parent a "pep talk" about following the court order.
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