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I have a 7 year old child with my ex-wife.
My ex-wife is a violent person. Physically and mentally. I witnessed her violent behavior, while we were married. Whenever things did not go her way, or there was a disagreement between her and me about issues, she always punched the walls, threw a cell phone, or a hair dryer, or anything she has at me, to hurt me to assert herself. Moreover, she called the police many times to allege things that I was violent.
In 2012 she became very violent and abusive of our son. I tried to work with her to stop hitting our son, screaming, and mentally abusing him. DCF came, but, things became worse.
I did not pay attention to her allegations, because, I did not do anything wrong, then, I thought, I have nothing to worry about. I have never been charged with anything, because there was nothing true in her allegations. But, I and my son became targets of her escalating anger, and our marriage became strained. Finally in October of 2013 we got divorced, on a mutual basis, and we have joint custody of our child.
She became friends with my first ex-wife who was full of vengeance, and they joined forces. She ruined my reputation by defaming me. She managed to isolate me from friends and even my family by telling those lies.
Now she went too far when she told the police that I am a TERRORIST, a threat to National Security. The law enforcement agencies take every statement about "TERRORISM" very seriously, they make any information about terrorists private and classified while they investigate the allegations. I know that, because my former attorney told me that her attorney told him that he should not represent a “TERRORIST (me). Consequently, my attorney after, telling me that I my ex-wife made a report that I am a “TERRORIST’, he withdrew from my case, and I had to hire a new attorney.
She got an injunction and claimed that I am imminent threat to my child and her. We went to court and the judge dismissed the injunction against my child and ordered that the divorce agreement joint custody kept enforced, but, he granted her attorney a continuation.
We just had a second hearing on 7/10/2012, and it lasted about 3 hours. The judge granted them again a contraption until august. I am concerned about her allegations of terrorism, and I don’t know what else she will allege next.
It seems that even the judge is influenced and concerned about the fake terrorism issue, my ex-wife raised. What can I do to find out why the judge is granting all these motions for continuations and what can I do?
Please help me and my son who is suffering as well.
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