If he has been discharged the military can do nothing now. If there were domestic violence issues and integrity issues they should have been raised with the chain of command and prior to discharge... If he is in the Reserves which is often the case after active duty, these charges could affect his security clearance if he has one but you would need to know his status...
I am sorry for your situation....
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If your husband has already been discharged from the military, meaning he has his DD214 in hand, I do not know of any action you can initiate to attempt to have his characterization of service downgraded.
If he is discharged--he's no longer in the military and informing them of his criminal activities is likely pointless.
Sounds like he has the GI bill--something he earned for his service--if honorably discharged, he's entitled to it without regard for his civilian activities. Since he's already been charged, not sure what you would want to inform the DA of......DA apparently already knows.
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