Sorry to hear of your situation - with $100,000 outstanding it is likely that you will be contacted by creditors soon looking to collect on these debts. Without knowing the facts of how or when your ex-spouse incurred the debts, you should take a good look at your credit reports to ensure that no new "joint" lines of credit are open and active. Also the timing of your divorce is critical: debts incurred during the marriage could be considered as "joint" in some instances.
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I am surprised that you did not have a marital settlement agreement which would spell out who each debt belongs to. Although this is not a criminal matter, it would not surprise me if his creditors came after you since you and your assets are here and he is not. I suggest you hire an attorney who can do a judgment search for you, to see if there are civil suits current against your ex and you. Even though you may not be on his credit cards, in some incidents, some of the debts may be considered marital. (For examply, his plane ticket out of the country may be considered a personal debt, but if he bought furnitute which was used in the marital home, that might be considered a marital debt). If you would like to discuss your options and learn how to protect yourself from creditors you may contact my law firm. Our NJ number is 908-400-5585. I have a legal guide on How NYS Protects Consumers from Illegal Debt Settlement and Debt Collection Companies. The program is not available in NJ, but the two guides provide some very practical guides on how to fight back with certain creditors who do not follow the law.
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Hiring a lawyer; Is it Legal? Is it Illegal?...Understanding the different court systems;
Introduction to Legal terms used in litigation; Limitations on a Lawyer’s License: What a Lawyer Can and Cannot Do……….……………………..…………………………..
Commercial litigation: How to Handle a Dispute
How New York State Protects Consumers from Debt Settlement and Debt Collection Agencies, Part I and Part II.
Divorce and Legal Separation in General and How It's Handled in New Jersey
Financial Dos and Don'ts after a Divorce (written by Attorney Gabriel Cheong)
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