In most states physical custody determines which parent gets the exemption. If custody is 50/50, perhaps you can switch off years with Mother for the exemption. If you can prove the child(ren) actually spend more time with you during the year, I suggest youask the court to allow you to have the exemption. I hope this helps and wish you well.
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