I'd suggest to write the evaluator an e-mail & ask him again why this "home visit" is necessary. If he puts in writing that he's only doing it to placate your wife, then this may be seen as a form of bias & may either result in his/her removal or for the Judge to disregard his/her evaluation. Speak to your attorney, though, before doing anything. If you're looking for a 2d opinion - or you don't have an attorney - then schedule a consultation with a NYC Child Custody attorney for a full assessment.
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I love when my adversary demands forensics...they are usually fishing expeditions and backfire! Let them do it...the person so insistent usually ends up being dissatisfied with the report and...if it goes against you your attorney can usually refute the findings anyway.
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