He can bearly walk even with walker? How can I get them help? He is a against any move of any kind but I want my mother to live with me, he will go to nursing home. will funds be split to care for each or does the nursing home get everything? They now live alone, 82&87 yrs old he has no family left she has 3 daughters. Only me locally.Concerned for safety and well being. He refuses help!