You need to file a contempt action against your daughter's father. Such an action would be filed in the same court that issued the Order that he is violating, and would need to be properly served upon him. If you are not certain how to accomplish this, you need to contact a family law attorney who practices in your area.
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Based on the facts you presented, your daughter's father is in violation of the court order and can be held in contempt. As my colleague stated, you need to file an action for contempt. His actions may also have an effect on custody. You definitely need to contact an attorney to go over the specifics of your case and to assist you in filing for contempt as well as possibly addressing modification of the order (which will be based on the totality of circumstances). Good luck!
It is important that you take action as soon as possible and file a Contempt action in the court that entered the original order. You may also have a good case for a Modification of Custody, based on the facts you provided. I would consult a family law attorney as soon as possible.
You don't contact the judge. Instead you retain a lawyer, who likely will file a contempt (and possibly other things).
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