Do we have any legal recourse if we don't want her to? I mean 21 or older is very old for a high schooler.. other than proper parenting are there any recourses ie legal that we have? Can we interfer if both parties have intercourse and its consensual? Or is it not statuory (sp) because she is 16... seems as though the adult could get in trouble as well.. and is he allowed to transport, and have her in his home against our wishes as shes a minor if she consents to be 'in his custody/company' moreover do we have the legal authority to keep her at home/deny permission to go certain places as described? please advise..