What you are asking about is modifying the parenting time arrangement to either limit contact with step mother, both step mother and father or to end the contact. These matters can be very difficult to determine. You should seek a consultation with an attorney to review indepth the facts, issues and concerns that have arisen. You will want to consider counseling for your daughter in general and for purposes of future hearing/trial. You will also need to give thought to what your daughter's concerns are and what she wants to do. Although your daughter can not testify at court, she can be interviewed by the court. I would seek a consultation and determine what can be done to try and limit the step mother's contact.
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