You need counsel with trust and litigation experience to pursue your remedies here.
The key to trusts is that we give the trustees wide discretion to carry out trust purposes - that's necessary so that folks will create trusts using people in whom they have confidence.
The flip side is that someone who violates their high duties as trustee for honesty and integrity - that person is in for a world of hurt.
Get yourself an estate litigation attorney immediately. These people violated fundamental trust rules of honesty and fidelity. You should have the attorney pursue recovery of the monies stolen, a complete accounting and the removal of the trustee. For the usual grounds for removal, please see my article entitled Probate: Removal of Personal Representative Under PA Estates and Fiduciary Code at the following link: http://www.sjfpc.com/Probate_Removal_Executor_Trustee_PA_Probate_law.html. Even though it relates to PA most states use similar tests for removal.
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