26 year old grandson is living in the home, he is using drugs, bringing strange people home, stealing, etc. His father refuses to have him in his home, but does not appear to be concerned about him being in the grandparents home. Grandpa suffers from dementia so is unaware of the situation. Grandma is making all of the financial decisions, and refuses to stop enabling the grandson, by allowing him to do whatever he wants. She has shelled out thousands of dollars for lawyers for him, medical care, child support for his child etc.
She is in complete denial regarding this young man. I am concerned for the health and safety of our parents, both are in their 90's and very vulnerable. I am the caregiver for my father 5 days a week, and witnessed instances that may be considered elder abuse.