You question is coming up as a Texas issue. You need to ask attorneys in the State where your case is. Attorneys are licensed by a particular State. Texas attorneys know about Texas law, which is differeny from the law in Wa or NC.
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You need responses from lawyers in both Washington State and North Carolina. You should repost and ask for help from those two states.
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