Most likely it would be denied because you did not show up. There is also a very high probability that the denial will result in your being placed in deportation proceedings.
You should retain an experienced immigration attorney to review your case and advise you.
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If your husband is being abusive towards you then you may be eligible to file a claim under the Violence Against Woman Act (VAWA). Consult with an immigration attorney who can review your options with you.
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I am very concerned that not attending the interview would result on deportation. I would suggest consulting further with an attorney because there are additional questions that would need to be addressed. As well if the date is approaching and you have not sought legal advise I would tell the immigration officer what is happening. That is better than not doing anything at all.
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