There are way too many issues going on her. The very first question is whether you need to show up to your annulment hearing. The answer is yes . . . especially because I don't think the hearing is for an annulment. Annulments in NC are incredibly limited. What makes you think this is an annulment hearing? Do you have attorneys? Why did you tag prenuptial? What happened to the domestic violence charges? Why do you say he stole money and tools from you? Chances are the money was his through marital property. The first thing to do is figure out how the marriage is going to end (annulled or by divorce). If it is ending by divorce, you can handle the money owed through a separation agreement. By the way, DO NOT LIE to get an annulment . . . that would be a felony.
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