My husband has 3 children. His son is 20 and has been living with my husband parents in Texas for over 2 years. His daugter will be 18 in November and has been living with us since Christmas. His youngest daughter still lives with the mother. My husband pays $700.00 a month and has been paying faithfully for alot of years. The child support office tells my husband that his child support order has the child support lumped into one sum so he can't get it lowered. They say we have to go to court to have the children separated and then they can drop the children that are of age. We are currantly in a chapter 13 (payback plan) and cannot afford a lawyer. Is there a better way for us to approch this because we need this dropped to help us live. Chapter 13 takes alot from us and we were praying for some relief.