My ex voluntarily placed himself on supervised visitation until he learns how to take care of our disabled special needs child and take various classes. We had the conference and he told the mediator and lawyer that he lives with his parents and they will supervise his visitation. I found it odd that they did not talk to anyone to verify this information and discounted what I said and took his word. I just discovered his mom never agreed to supervising and he doesn't live where he told his lawyers the visitation would take place(which it would be at his parents house)
If he wasn't straight about where the supervised visitation should take place, then I think you'd be fine in not turning your child, so long as file a motion immediately bringing the situation to the court's attention.
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You should file a motion to suspend visits. If you can offer proof that he lied and violated the agreement it is possible he could be held in contempt.
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If the order specifies where the visitation is to take place then you are within your rights to not allow visitation to occur elsewhere. If he does not live at his parents but that's where the visitation will take place then you are bound by the order. He cannot change the location if it's specified in the order.
I would file an emergency motion to modify the visitation based upon his misrepresentations.
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