Unfortunately, you cannot generally go back and recover child support for the past because it would violate the due process rights of the payor. The law requires notice and an opportunity to be heard, so if you did nothing before now, you have essentially forfeited your rights to collect past child support. It pains me to hear that mothers (and fathers) do not file for child support and allow years and years to go by before contacting an attorney for help. That is unfair to your children who deserve to be financially supported by BOTH parents. Let this be a warning to others: please seek the assistance of counsel, Child Support Services, or the Family Law Facilitator's office--help is out there.
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